A women in a relationship with a man who is in the mind, will feel inherently bad from it. For he is not wanting her to feel how she feels. He doesn't want her to be. This will leave her feeling no good, not worthy.
I spent a day with a man in the mind recently, the end, never again. I learnt my lesson, I felt bad after it. In the end I will find someone pure and in the heart. Love always wins. In the end.